Sophie Cockett, Ria Wolstenholme
Let’s talk about lube. Not just a great companion to have on hand when you’re playing with a partner – but also a key component when engaging in some solo self-care – personal lubricant is made to minimise friction and amplify those feel-good sensations.
“Lube is the unsung hero of sex and masturbation,” says Annabelle Knight, Sex & Relationships Expert at Lovehoney. “It can take your intimacy to another level but is also really important for making sex and solo play more accessible and comfortable for those experiencing vaginal dryness — and is a must for anyone having anal sex.”
“There is a misconception, however, that it is only suitable for those with specific needs, or older women when it should be used by everyone,” she continues. “Not just for function, but for pleasure too, lube should be every sexually active person’s best friend.”
From water-based to hybrid varieties and long-lasting silicone lube, there are a few different types, all made to serve different purposes. For instance, not all are condom-safe or suitable for sensitive skin. But with more women and vulva owners taking their pleasure into their own hands — hurrah! — now’s the time to not let this info wash over you.
If your bedside drawer is seriously lacking in the lube department, our guide covers all the basics, plus a (carefully curated) edit of the very best lubricants available to shop now. Tried and tested, of course…
SKIP TO: What is lube? | How we test the best lubes | What are the benefits of using lube? | Can you use lube with condoms? | Can you use lube with sex toys?
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Meet the expert:
What is lube?
Simply put, an intimate lubricant is a liquid or gel that’s used during sexual activity to reduce friction and enhance your comfort. While nowadays you’ve got plenty of options, that wasn’t always the case. Yep, rumour has it that our ancestors tried everything from olive oil (please don’t) to smashed-up yams (the same advice applies).
Today, lube comes in a sweetshop of flavours. Although, first, we would prioritise picking a ‘pH-balanced’ potion over a tasty-sounding flavour. Otherwise, the addition of unnecessary nasties may risk disrupting the natural bacteria of your vagina. That would be like WhatsApping Thrush and asking it to join.
The next thing to consider: type.
How we test the best lubes:
We don’t decide to crown a product “the best” in any category lightly. When curating an edit of the best condoms for women to keep you safe during partnered play, or the best period pants to help you skip single-use tampons and pads, we aim to test as many products as possible.